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Originally Posted by sarahhxx03
I need help! I had wrote on here before about my insecurities with my boyfriend. I was insecure about girls he talks too. they're just friends. but he broke up with me. then he said he missed me & was miserable. drove 45mins to see me & even gave back the promise ring. said "I made you a promise & im not breaking it" : so why do my thoughts keep messing it up? I know he loves me & I know he wants to be with me, but idk why my head is giving these ideas! it's driving me crazy.
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Do YOU want to be with him? The conversation is about his missing you - did YOU miss HIM? I am not asking about being upset after the breakup because you were not the initiator of the breakup; I am asking about actually missing him.
I am wondering because it could be that you cannot honestly tell yourself that you DO NOT want him, at least not in the long run, so your ambivalence takes the form of those thoughts and ideas that are driving you crazy. This is just one hypothesis.