Sounds like you need to go through a grieving process because of the break up. Maybe you are just stuck in that process or have walled off even starting it. After a loss the grieving process is healthy and necessary. How do you grieve when you just don't feel.....I dunno it is tough. I usually start writing about it. I just write and write everything about it even if I don't feel anything. That can open the door. Also talking to other people about it like you did hear.
There are a lot of articles on this site if you go to home page and just search "grief" her are two.
The 5 Stages of Loss and Grief | Psych Central
The Two Worlds of Grief and Depression | World of Psychology
Here is a section in this forum
Grief and Loss - Forums at Psych Central
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