Hi darling,

First off, let me say that I am so sorry that this happened. I know, all to well, about awaiting the dreaded phone call - the anxiety, fear, talking yourself into not caring, and then wanting to burst into tears, stomach dropping - I get it.

Right now, you're at a crossroads. This really can go many many ways. 1) the girl can tell a teacher who would notify the guidance counselor who would notify you and your parents (What happened to me). 2) the girl could tell a peer who could possibly tell another, and the staring could intensify. 3) the girl can keep to herself and not tell anyone. I think that option just can not help you in any way. I think that option 3 would help you until you have the courage to share your struggle with an adult who can help you. But I also think that option 1, even with its many complications with the parents and questions, and reactions, wouldn't be a bad idea because suffering in silence is a terrible burden and it being in the light is an opportunity to change your life (almost as if it doesn't get any worse than this - no where to go but up).

Whatever happens, the best thing I can tell you is to be prepared. The anxiety likely won't shed until you know that something or nothing is going to happen - and at this moment its out of your hands honestly. In my two cases, I was pulled out of class and then in the other the staff was there to meet me right when getting off the bus to school. I CAN tell you that freaking out just is not going to help.

This is a time where you need to be vigilant and wise, and also maybe consider the benefits of however the situation turns out. I know its sucky, and no amount of words will make you feel better right now. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to PM me, and either way you'll be in my thoughts.