I'm 38 and am about 5' 8". I have dated guys as tall as 6' 6" and as short as 5' 4". All have been fairly thin. I care much more about personality than I do anything else. I do think that it sometimes bothers hubby(5' 4") that I'm taller than him but it doesn't matter in the least to me.

My mother who is 5' 10" won't date a guy that is under 6'. I don't know why she just prefers a guy taller than her. I think she's said her optimum height would be between 6' 2" - 6' 4". And I don't think she cares about build but every guy I've seen her with has been very slender.