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Originally Posted by tipper1492
So sorry! It would be good, maybe it would, if you could move away. I understand your fear, and that's no way to live. Is India where people have been known to toss acid on people? Maybe that's a horrible thing to say, but the act of that is more horrible, not to say what else he is capable of. He sounds like he would do anything. Wish to could disappear in America. Even if he found out you were here, there are more here to protect you and the laws have gotten better at protection.
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Hi Tipper.
Yes you're right. This is the place where such things are known to occur. That, and every other freaky, creepy thing you can possibly imagine.
Even Indians who move abroad never get over that mentality - with husbands beating up wives and what-nots.
Sadly, we are just helpless here. Both girls and guys who are rejected, sometimes take things too far and they don't know what they do next. He has done enough harm to me - yelling at my parents, yelling at me, trying to break the relationship I've with my folks - everything.
He was intending to leave me at the request of his family. But for some reason, both he and his folks never said an outright no, but just dragged the relationship along, till we stopped it. I feel so scared all the time. A wedding is the best thing to happen for anyone, and when he threatens to ruin it... And knowing him, he won't hesitate to bad-mouth me if he got wind that I ever got married.
Honestly, he won't stop till he gets married - which probably won't be for another year or two. But, God alone knows what all he can do to me mentally before that. His target is more of mentally harassing me rather than to physically assault me. Physical harassment can land him in deep trouble. But mental harassment will be hard to put an end to.