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Originally Posted by Bi girl
I am starting to become more addictive (masterbate) and I masterbate 2-4 times a day. Sometimes more (like today, I'm smoking & it makes me horny) I'm also very into porn & my tastes are getting more hardcore. I need to stop if I ever want to have regular sex with a man again.
Any ideas on how to stop? Cold turkey or gradual? I have an additive personality so it's hard to stop once I've started something.
I really need anyone's advice or ideas. I'm new to this & have never told anyone til today.
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Why do you believe that what you are doing has any relevance to your having a sexual relationship with a man in the future? What you are describing seems to be anxiety over a non-issue. Do you accomplish things during a day? study/work/clean/exercise - whatever it is that you plan to do during the day - do you accomplish it? If you do, there is no addiction. Addiction is a term that gets thrown around a lot without any basis. I'd say that simply by looking at posts, less than 5% of people who self-diagnose an addiction meet the criteria for addiction.