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Old Nov 12, 2014, 07:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Ididitmyway View Post
I didn't say it makes you forget the memories. I said it helps you recall and process events safely. And, yes, it works on the specific events, not on the prolonged abuse and/or neglect.
I did not say you did. I am mentioning that aspect of it. The post was not about you. It was just an overall response to the thread.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
Thanks for this!
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