So...we assume you are gainfully employed and able to support yourself, including student loans, rent, food, insurance, etc. etc.?

If so, you are ready to move out of the nest, spread your wings and live the life you've been given. The boyfriend issue is secondary. Just remember that your parents love you and want what's best for you, in spite of their rather awkward attempts to help.

On the other hand, if you are not financially self-sufficient you aren't ready for the move. Perhaps that is where your focus should lie.

Good luck to you!