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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
This is the first time in my life that I hear of a man your height being unhappy about his height.
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I'm not hopelessly unhappy/insecure but more naively wondering. Where I live women are usually about 1.50 - 1.65 [m], men are about 1.70 [m] and I've rarely seen people of my height and lankiness in my area, besides usually hearing comments about tall and skinny guys as "giraffes", though I honestly don't care about this last. I'm really skinny, and I'm usually asked whether I ate lunch everyday or not with some frequency (ofc I do).
About the Jesus thing, I'm for accepting it, slowly. I dislike it basically because I'm apatheist but I guess it's not a big deal. I like my hair so far though I'll cut it after finishing uni, unless something else comes up.
Another points that may show something about the "oddity" of my question: Besides cultural differences between your country and mine, it may also be an effect of my few social interaction these years. I've not had much ones besides the practical everyday ones (my close friendships are just online indeed, so they don't know how am I, and I'm not really close to my close family). This may have a reasonable effect on my self-awareness. I don't have much time for meeting new people when at uni, but I'll manage to do something when on vacations. I must admit I'm unnecessarily cynical sometimes, and it's hard for me to emotionally connect, but I'm optimistic about being enough flexible for changing for the best. I just want to know more for making my potential partner to feel comfortable given the few knowledge and experience I've about spontaneity, more than being afraid of making the ridiculous. I know, overtheorizing something that's actually more about feeling doesn't seem the best idea, but I've my reasons.
Thanks for the honest answers, specially to hamster-bamster, this is the sort of vision I wanted to grasp.