The problem with the thought is that it's only a small step away from taking the action......I got caught in that vicious cycle & in feeling so trapped that I desperately wanted out of having lost my career with no place hiring, a bad marriage, & everything else that kept hitting me.

I was really lucky all those years that I wasn't successful because life has turned around & I was finally able to escape out of the bad marriage. Never got my career back....but I have settled into a different life & the freedom from being trapped in the bad marriage made the huge difference & I'm finding that I LOVE being alone but with really good friends, something I never had before because of my bad marriage.

Many think about it....for me it wasn't like I went from thinking, to planning, to doing.....I skipped the planning.....that's why even thinking can be a dangerous sign that definitely needs outside help.....even though that didn't help for me either......for me....miracles were the only thing that kept me alive & I am thankful for that now as I LOVE like as much now as I hated it then