LOL....you need to watch that movie....."He's Just Not That Into You"....a friend of mind gave that movie to me last Christmas.....it's cute.....you never know just how things will turn out....but you are right.....no matter how much or how little you try to contact them.....if they are interested....they will be there.....if not.....they won't as long as you gave them the "you are interested" signal in the first place which you did by talking about things you might do together.

I know I had a guy in college that was one of my horse riding friends....but he wanted to date & wanted ME to set aside a specific day of the month 6 months in advance that we would go one on. Crap....I don't even plan what I'm going to do the next day let alone 6 months ahead when it's JUST for dinner at a normal reataurant....not like a play that's going to be in town only for a few days 6 months from then......

Had another guy that I enjoyed riding horses with....& he was interested but I wasn't & he was forever sending me HUGE bouquets of flowers.....felt like he was trying to buy my friendship......definitely didn't get involved with that one either.....too much of a free spirit....& most guys are that way.....let them know you are interested & if they are....they will be calling you.....& if they don't get your message.....then maybe you are better off without them also because there will be too many other things they just don't read & if you aren't ok with things like that & get frustrated......it's probably NOT a good fit either.