I know she is three because I can see her in my mind. She does not seem to view the body as her. We all see the body as its own self. Some times we are surprised to realize we are female. But the body isn't us. We live in the body. I think that is where we are unable to comprehend the question. The hands look like the body's hands. We might be moving them in a certain way depending who is near or who is out but our hands belong to the body. Our behavior and thoughts belong to us. That is why we stopped hurting the body. The body protects us and now we protect the body.