I don't mean to come off as specifically females, but I'll include something I don't know the answer to.

I really like females who are edgy, rough ( I mean not only stick up for themselves, but no holds barred on their emotions on honest opinions. Girls who like the fight and the the toughness.) I mean I'm tough too, but I don't know why I like to be roughed up a lot. Not just sexually but emotionally for pleasure where sometimes it can borderline or has become abuse.

I'm not sad, by this, just don't know why like the females who aren't afraid to be themselves and put their individuality out there and shove other people or else they'll snap. Not that they would actually do it to break civility mostly, I've dated a few who have been crazy and will fight anyone, but I dated very timid girls. I don't like it like it's boring and it makes me feel bad dating them. Not that they are bad people, it's just they bore me quickly and even though I'd like to rather be friends with them. I'd never want to have sex and date them in a long term relationship, because I don't want to break their heart. I've only dated one girl like that, it ended out pretty well, because she secretly had a very crazy seductive side to her that was like a surprise treat. I didn't really want or expect it, sometimes it was too much, but I'd have the best friendship with her before.

I like women who go crazy get mad, I like women who try to show everyone to back off because she'll cut everyone up. Not that I'd like to see her in pain or suffering, because that's not fun at all, but I find it sexy for me to understand them. Like douse their flames for me, and everyone go nuts.

It's not that I want something from them other than my intent of a relationship if I did do meet people like that, but also I do like very quiet introverted overly cutesy type of bubbly personality girls too.

I have a mix, I get turned off to negative attitudes like most people, and find if she isn't that funny to me and I don't want to hear her talk because she's not good at it. I can't do it, but that's not happened much like once.

I've had some good luck..

I did come out as bi, so with guys. I like what many preteen girls like, except not one direction. I guess as much as a 15 year old girls like in grown guys. I guess the chiseled face, blue eyes like mine or dark brown sometimes green. Muscles, and I think personality I'm not so picky, because I have so many guy friends I'm around a lot already I've been around more recently. I find it much easier to click with a guy, but at the same time if it was a relationship. I haven't gotten that far yet. I am learning more about this slowly. I am no rush to figure this side of me out. The one thing is why I decided to be bisexual. It goes hand in hand with me as trans, if I was a woman, thinking about it seriously. I'd let a guy take control of me, but I'd take charge of the females in dominance. I do like it sometimes when women are dominant, but then again depends on who. The fact, I do find men sexually attractive now. I like classy men and classy women, suits dresses ties and fancy clothes suit my taste of not what society wants. It's what I see in public, and I'm like with a girl if I'm with my guy friends yes she's gorgeous and my lesbian bi female friends too. If I'm with certain people who know about my bi side, I'd now tell them about the girls and guys who I say he's cute or like I'd bone him.

It's came up and it's relieving doesn't feel like their is a wall of what I feel segregating.

Overall I made this, because I don't know why I like edgy girls, I know about guys already. I'm not too sure on the petite cutesy girls.

I'm not picky as I say, I know it's been mainly superficial stuff, but if you'd like me to elaborate I'd certainly can. It's very hard to condense it all in one.

I like all sizes of girls I meet generally. If she's got a lot of weight on her, I don't mind, unless symmetry is off and it's a no go. Don't matter on weight symmetry which is the only specific most confusing part about my sexual attraction to females and especially men is so confusing.

I know what I like in females with looks, I like the extremes and I like average a lot too. I don't find one better than the other, more the individual. Guys on the other hand, I can't, I really don't like many guys, but when I do it's definitely there and it's confusing. I think dating a guy be harder for me more than anything, because I am afraid, I think they are attractive one the next no. I don't have that with the girls I've dated, even if they weren't as attractive to others as they were to me, I didn't really care about that.

But getting off track. If anyone has a biological, psychological, or anything that may explain why my sexual attraction is like a adhd child in a lego room please tell me. It never can make up it's mind and I don't know why.

The only thing that distinguishes someone like to really make me heart stop gorgeous male or female. It's extremely rare, but it happens and someone who's like to me, I'll say "oh she's/he's hot. I'm going to talk to him/her to get to know them." Other than that please help me understand this I'm not good at knowing this part of my own body, but definitely understand it from the outside looking in for someone else in general.

the other confusing thing is that, should I ever be in a relationship with someone who I think is so beautiful in my mind or hot guy/girl. Not as in infatuation, I avoid obsessing over that **** and treat them like a human, but should I date people who come off to me as that or am I asking for a bad idea emotionally for myself?