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Originally Posted by kindheartedxo
If its that serious the boy should be not talking to her at all if he really needs his " space time and to think and just be friends " @ Hellboy should not be contacting her what so ever . he should be worrying about him. Not mixing this woman up. That's the real deal. So sorry.
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If it's that serious? This boy's wartime experience is coming to surface, he's suffering and will be for the rest of his life and your real deal advice is to be disingenuous and manipulative, I guess watching one's friends get blown up doesn't register for you as something that would merit compassion toward your loved one?
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Originally Posted by kindheartedxo
Your whole response @hellboy gives nothing about her to help her . But more of to help HIM. She asked for help for her with him. Not to dump him and move on. I gave my opinion woman to woman from similar experience of how to keep the relationship but what she could do that would actually help  ! So thanks. |
Your whole woman to woman response is about manipulating the situation and this suffering man. They had a great relationship until recently, likely because he had a breakdown. He is not a bad guy and not a game player. She wants feedback in dealing with this situation. I told her she needed to educate herself and decide what kind of role she was gonna play in this. Put the petty concerns of a relationships definition to the side for the time being. Your suggestion to abandon a war vet in this condition that you care about is mind-boggling. Your advice strikes me as immature and counterproductive to say the least, for all parties involved. That's the real deal.