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Originally Posted by hellboy
If one ever finds themselves at a point where they feel the need to work things out with their T, the therapeutic value of that relationship has been long gone and no amount of discussion will bring it back. It's like breaking a vase and then deciding you want to put it back together, but it will never hold water again. The T already knows this and that the only solution is to move on.
Hellboy
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What rot. Black and white thinking at its finest!
That is true only in cases where the relationship has become toxic and either overtly or inadvertantly abusive.
Human relationships will always require a degree of 'working things out', negotiation, resolving disagreement and hurt in a healthy way. Therapists are not saints, ruptures happen.