I've known guys that would even take steroids and nonsense just to get bigger and look tougher for the women. Talk about insecure. Why any self-respecting woman would want to date someone like that is beyond me ... oh ... he's confident. Yeah. Right.

I competed in powerlifting because I loved it (until I started bursting blood vessels in my head, then I still loved it but with bursting blood vessels and had to stop). It wasn't for the ladies, it was for me.