It's best to tell her about what you wish you did, and then talk about it. You have a huge maternal transference going on, and the way to work through that is to keep talking about it. The more you trust that your LC cares about you the easier it will hopefully get to accept that she's your LC and that you can have that strong caring relatioship with her without trying to coerce her into acting like a mom.
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