personally I think not saying "no" doesn't mean "yes". Rape doesn't always have to happen like in the movies. It isn't always aggressive, and violent sex. When I was 15 years old, I got extremely black out drunk and wasn't all there, and a guy who was much older came down to the basement where I was to "check up on me" and he raped me. I was too drunk to be able to talk properly, or know what was going on exactly. It was horrible. for years people made me feel like I deserved it because I was drunk, and I was promicious when I drank. If you you didn't want to have sex, and he pressured you to have sex, or you felt uncomfortable then yeah it is highly likely that you were raped. It's a touchy subject. I would suggest speaking to someone about what happened.