I took Lexapro, but only for a short time. However, I say the same thing about Trileptal-- feeling numb, inability to cry. You want to talk about this in therapy-- it is so easy to attribute what is going on to the meds. The meds give us something else to 'blame'-- just because it's an extra thing that is there. I talk about my numbness in therapy-- we uncover the things that I do care about-- things that I was insisting I felt numb about-- and most of all, try not to pinpoint the meds as the one factor that is making me not feel. You will cry at the right time. Maybe it's not even the meds. Maybe you are just not ready right now.