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Originally Posted by The Skeezyks
Hello Lute20: You know... it's not for me to tell you whether or not you're a sex addict. And I think it's probably not for anyone else here on PC either. This is something that is best diagnosed by someone who has credentials in this area & who can get to know you a bit better than we can here on PC.
Clearly, however, you have a powerful capacity for sexual activity; enough that, from my perspective, it is going to continue to create relationship difficulties in your life probably for years to come. So my thinking with regard to your situation is that this is something you may want to look into in depth. This might include both medical & psychological services. I would suspect it will be difficult for you to find a permanent relationship where you will be able to continue to pursue the kinds of sexual encounters you have now. And, while you may now be content with the lifestyle you're leading, as you age, you may tire of all of these casual liaisons & wish you could establish something more settled & permanent.
So that's my perspective. I hope it is helpful in some small way or other. My best wishes to you.  |
I don't really want to do what I'm doing. I'd prefer to have sex with my wife but she's dealing with issues of her own currently. So since im not getting it from her I am getting it from someone else. But I don't love either of them. I'd actually like to work things out with her but I feel like she's not going to even stay after our daughter's born. But before she stopped wanting sex I was content having sex with just her. My last girlfriend was the same I enjoyed sex just the same with just one girl monogamously just fine. I actually was happier because I emotionally bonded with them rather than just ****ing random people or a friend. I like being in a relationship. It's just the problems with the lack of sex and other problems in the relationship currently. But most of the time the good outweigh the bad. I just need a lot of attention in a relationship and if I'm unwanted I go where I'm wanted.
Just to clear up a few things.
Also I didn't break up with her due to the lack of sex it was actually a disagreement about getting married due to her being pregnant and her family pressuring her to. I never felt marriage was a good idea for me. When she left I went to a club and hooked up with a guy I met there. I didn't dump her because of the lack of sex.