I'm sorry you're going through this. It sounds very painful, not being listened to when you tell your therapist something's not working out for you. If you really believe this is making you worse and not better, that's a good reason to consider not going back, even though it's so difficult especially if you don't trust easily at all. If you think your therapist will listen to you about what you need from therapy this time and if you still want to try, perhaps it might be worth going back for one or two sessions to decide what you will do, either terminate together or tell him what you need to change and figuring out a way therapy could be helpful for you again. I'm also in therapy with a therapist who has helped me a lot over the years and who seems to be getting worse for me and I can understand how hard it can be to ask yourself whether to stay for the sake of past success and keep trying, or walk away.
On the other hand, you haven't really told us what your therapist said in that text or what has hurt you so much. Without that, I find it hard to really get an idea about what he has done. I just get a sense that he's not listening to your feedback, and that's never okay.
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