AK, you are quite a deep thinker, I am not quite sure I 'got' it this time....Are you saying he is trying to do things ''his'' way, and you want to be in control of what is discussed in session? I get the impression that at times you feel he is treating you as an 'experiment', a 'dx', a 'case study'. And you, rightfully so, want him to hear you on your own turf. If that is the case, I'm totally with you.

Has this been an issue before or did it just come up?

How long are you seeing this t?