Thanks for making me feel better hankster, I see the light at the end of the tunnel now Your comment cracked me up. I think my nightmares are down to one or two a year -- I hope yours aren't more frequent.

Were you there long? It's really awful to look back at these situations we lived with for so long. I should not have put up with it for 4+ years - and think that if I had put my foot down early on, I wouldn't have been treated the way I was.