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Old Nov 14, 2014, 05:49 PM
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So I've finally gotten to the point where I feel I no longer need to see T. Even in our sessions it's just what's new, and we talk about books and stuff. It's been like this for a month. It's obvious by the feel of everything that she thinks that I no longer need her and I feel is waiting for me to bring it up. I am ready to go, and the fact that I've gotten to the point of being able to happily separate from my T on a positive note is sign of it. I will miss talking to her and what not so there is a sadness in it. But I'm ready and I'm taking up a time slot where it's truly not needed anymore.

So how do you go about saying it without hurting feelings?
I don't think she will be hurt. It's a natural process that has its beginning, its development stage and its ending. I am sure she understands it.

Just say it how it is, that you feel your work is complete and that you appreciate all she has done etc..whatever it is you feel you need to express.
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