You know deep down in your heart what you need to do . If you had not of found all the
" Red Flags " do you think he would of told you ? Hell NO !

You keep saying you love him but love dose not save a person if they are not honest with you , that is not love your blinded by your love to him and at the end your going to get hurt , you see all the warning signs but for some reason your not doing anything to stop this madness so it will continue until either he dumps you or you wake up and dump him .

My advice move out and leave him , you know he wont be faithful with his friends they will all get drunk hello ..

Ask yourself if a friend wrote this letter what would you tell her ?
Your gut feeling never lie if it did you would of never looked at his stuff and I bet if you looked harder you would find more things .

You only have one life to live why waste it on someone who clearly has no respect for you