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Originally Posted by ~Christina
The point that I seem to always question is the fact you still have not found a real T...
Maybe the LC is helping you in some ways, but based on what you have shared about your childhood and or abuse still needs to be addressed by an actually licensed Therapist...
Someone that can help YOU process your emotions and working through the problems that are holding you back from having a life that you want.
Everyone has given you advice and links to T's that work nites and weekends , so why aren't you doing what needs to be done?.... At this point I'm sorry your LC is dropping the ball ... If she really wants to see you get help she would be pushing you to make appointments and or just making appointments for you If she can hold a trash bag for garbage in your room for you certainly she could just make you an appointment...... If shes had any kind of proper training she would know you damn sure need hooked up with a qualified professional.
Just seems like something is not "right" about this whole mess.
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I know that a lot of people here care about growli, and that is why they respond to her threads, but berating somebody about what kind of treatment they should be getting really isn't going to help, and its only going to create shame. I think that growli already knows what kind of thing is likely to help her, and I really don't think there needs to be another thread on what everybody's opinion is on this. A lot of research shows that people tend to get better when they make the choice to do it on there own. growli should have opportunity to make he own choice and do things at her own speed. Going to therapy is a really big step, and it doesn't help to just push somebody into it. I'm certain that growli will go when she is ready, and more to the point she did not ask for help with that in this thread. Pushing somebody to do something they are not ready for could just end up mirroring the abusive environment that they grew up in. I think that its important the PC stay a supportive place for everyone, and that people offer support when it is asked for.