We all care for growly thing. Most of us have been following her for a long time and know the situation . Nobody here is being condescending towards her, or pushing her. In fact , we stated that she write in the topic line, if she wants responses , advice or just hugs. When she does wants opinions , unfortunately , rational sound advice or recommendations sometimes hurts, or gets people upset. We in no way intend to demean her, I'm sorry that I'm speaking for everyone. Truth is that if you followed from the beginning , she does need a licensed t, growly has dangerous behaviors sometimes, and needs more than the lc,