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Originally Posted by sweepy62
We all care for growly thing. Most of us have been following her for a long time and know the situation . Nobody here is being condescending towards her, or pushing her. In fact , we stated that she write in the topic line, if she wants responses , advice or just hugs. When she does wants opinions , unfortunately , rational sound advice or recommendations sometimes hurts, or gets people upset. We in no way intend to demean her, I'm sorry that I'm speaking for everyone. Truth is that if you followed from the beginning , she does need a licensed t, growly has dangerous behaviors sometimes, and needs more than the lc,
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I never said she doesn't need a licensed T, I'm just saying that as soon as people find out that she hasn't done that yet they freak out, and start telling her about everything that is wrong in her life. And I'm just trying to say that she should be allowed to go about finding what she needs at her pace. growli seemed to just want to talk about her maternal transference when she started this thread, and some how three pages in it turns into people telling her for the nth time get a TT, LCM is bad...
And I have been reading her post pretty much since I've been here, and a lot of times I've seen her threads turn into a more critical tone. I want her to get whatever help she needs too, but I see no reason to just keep harping on about points that have been made long ago.