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Old Nov 15, 2014, 06:55 AM
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I agree that when you are married or have a partner.. you have to consider the of consequences of your decision. Easier said than done - but you have to change the way you think about your job. Yes, find another way - if you plan to get out you might start feeling better. Learning to "manage" how you feel about the job or co-workers and supervisors can help & reward yourself for putting up with it! I know when it's really bad - you have to go. Good luck
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