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Growing pains.

T is still there for you and this is still a process. You don't have to do it all at once. Growing is a lifelong process and it adds to the quality of your life.

I understand your grief and loss. I hope you will also come to a place where more growth---you've already done loads of growing and have so much to be proud of !!---sounds exciting and wondrous, too.

Yes we are human, powerless to the reality that we all suffer. That is also what connects us. Like the saying goes: "Life's not Fair! ....But it IS fair, because it's not fair for everyone."