She's a person who just can't commit to a commitment. She meant it when she said she wanted to get together. But she has distractions popping up and she can't juggle things. Then she is embarrassed to call and tell you.

A person like that is just unreliable. Everyone who knows her has a story like yours to tell. And she's not going to change. Sometimes, she doesn't know what she wants. Sometimes, she wants two or more competing things. Every day, she is completely surprised by things that come up. She shows up late for every place she has to be. She has excuse after excuse. She's learned to claim that work was her reason for bowing out because that's how she's salvaged her self-respect.

She may even be a lovable soul, in her own way, but I promise you she's a pain in the behind.