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I think therapy & books work the opposite way. Although we read the book, the experience of therapy is real and therefore more desirable. It is a personal experience. The book can give us a framework but the therapeutic experience is so individual that unless you write your own book you are not reading what is going on in THAT room at THAT time.

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Right on Sister!

That framework thing ... I am trying to understand... though I understand it in the context you use it. I notice people here mentioning frames but wonder how important people feel knowledge is about the frame when they are working on an issue. Are they like boundaries for a discussion or a road map or what? I should probably know this... :-)