I agree with musinglizzy.
When I was Searching for a new T last year one of the questions I asked was how long T expected to be a T. She is reaching retirement age...and she was honest to say she planned on doing therapy at least five more years but she would give me plenty of notice when she planned on winding her practice down. I wasn't happy to hear "five more years" because I'm probably a lifer....but she is well connected, cares about me and im trusting she will eventually refer me to someone that hopefully meshes well with me.
I also understand your decision for the present to not look for another T.
After something bad happened to me in a previous therapy, it took me fifteen years and a serious illness to make me reconsider and try again. Truthfully, I feel I am doing so much better with Ts support.
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