(((((((((((((((((mystry)))))))))))))))))
safe hugs

you keep posting here my sweet. you need to get this stuff out, you put the trigger sign there, that is enough to warn people.
i want to put my arms round you and hug you so much for what you have been through. you are a wonderful, intelligent and sensitive person to write like you have, and brave too. i wish you all the luck in the world in your progress to heal, you deserve your family, what a shame they are missing such a wonderful father. abused aren't abusers usually although it has been known, the way you have written and what you have written proves you are aware of what happened to you was wrong and i'm sorry you made the choice to leave your wife and family.
please pm me anytime, i will talk and listen to you. what a lovely person you are.

with love and genuine concern, jinnyann (kerry) xoxoxoxoxo