Oh my goodness...
I am here today as a new member--urs was the very first thread I've visited.
I lost my dog Sissy LuLu a month ago yesterday and I cannot get myself on track yet so I came here for some help...
PLEASE--know that there are people out there that know and understand your pain!! I have been sobbing all day partly because I miss her and partly because of the hurt from no one understanding. I AM HERE FOR YOU and so are many others! Remember that you have to keep reaching out through the pain--many will turn there head, yes, but there IS that person that will get it and reach out there hand to you. It's so hard, I know. But please keep trying and know it's perfectly fine to cry and grieve!
If you want to talk about it--I'm here. Actually talking with someone who understands would help me so much as well. I get it-I promise you-I get it. My Sissy was my best friend and the loss of her magic has made me less of a person inside.
So if you need it, I'm that person that will reach out and give you a hand up. If not, no worries. But the help you need to cope is out there--just please keep trying and no giving up!