I just read the article What a toxic person & how do you deal with one
Is this type of person also a narcissist? 30 years I have been married to him...
But any way, the article is appreciated and enlightening. Thank you!

Today was another classic day..
I was feeling all of the things in the article...and I finally busted- got irritated with his yelling at our cat, snarky comments (says things but with a "Tone" )
And I got mad and took it out on him, it should have been at my self for being so sensitive..He says he feels like he has to walk on egg shells around me...