Respected CANDC,
Thanks you so much for reading my problem and giving me very good suggestions.
I will take leave for one month from school to go to Dubai n whn I will come back I will put some extra hrs to complete one months pending work.
My husband has good job there he is earning good.
The story he told me about his sad past I believe it but he told me tht non of tht 4 kids are his. N I don't believe it. If he has been living with her form last 11 years thn from where whose kids come from?
I know he want to spend his life with me but he want to dominate me.. i think he thinks tht i am from his back town n here man can treat women to according to their moods.

I can't say anything until I am with him. May b he hiding lot of stuff from me?

I have doubts about lot of things. I have to clear thm thn I am go further but he don't listen. He always say y u think too ooo much. It's all your mind creation n nothing else.