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Originally Posted by Slamjammer
I guess I don't understand the reasoning behind getting married in the first place, knowing that he would be leaving in two weeks, and it will take two years or more for your immigration paperwork. In the meantime he continues to be manipulative and controlling of you from a distance....and it will only get worse with time.
As others have posted, I'm not familiar with your customs, but this is not a marriage in any practical sense. I don't know what your options are, but you deserve to live your life...to grow and develop to your full potential. Your present circumstances make that impossible.
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Where are you supposed to immigrate to??? I seems that if you leave a place where things like this are very common...maybe you can get some real help in another country??? You are very smart to be so closed-in to yourself with this problem. Women that try to assert themselves in many countries get physically hurt if they do...
What a mess you have. All I have to offer are my best wishes....