Bummer. I can't offer any more advice than what I see others have given. Yeah. Grief counselling. You've been double whammied with even your home life being turned upside down. I hope that staying where you are with your dad will become "normal" in some time to come...which will only help you out.

Coming to this site was a great idea for both of us. The time I am spending...right now...trying to help YOU is helping ME.