We were rather intense and going back and forth and I said something like how do I get to the other side....meaning the unconscious alliance with him. There had been alot of eyeball to eyeball verbal confrontation back and forth. He said -by doing just this.

That, gave me hope....and somehow I felt we had turned a corner and were making progress and I had permission to be who I was needing to be and express what I needed to. We both would.

LOL...I also told him that I felt he was jabbing me in past recent sessions and I made my hand like I was putting a knife in his gut and twisting it... He thought that was great...

Still working things through....