I believe I am following you and that I am experiencing it without having to define it. It is there and I know when I have gone outside of boundaries... sometimes acceptable and sometimes not. I also understand a progression and a direction for therapy so that would be the road map that we may choose to change roads or highways as we go but it is often continuous and logical.

I loved your story of going outside to get a drink of water without announcing it.. ....lol..... ;-)