The short answer is "No." I'ld guess one of two things is going on. He may have a profound sexual problem. Or - he may love you, but may not be in love with you. That could be because the two of you got living together before knowing each other well enough.

So for the first year dating, it was long distance, which meant there wasn't much sex. Then you just told us the second year has been without much sex. Either this guy is not that into sex, or he is getting his sex with someone other than you. It sounds kind of amazing that the two of you produced a daughter. Maybe he is staying with you because he cares a lot about the daughter.

I'm sure you are very unhappy, and I don't see a lot of hope that this is going to improve. I keep seeing where relationships that start on line and stay long distance for quite a while tend to produce huge surprises/disappointments. If I were you, I would avoid doing anything big like buying a house or having another child with this man anytime soon. You may want out of this situation.

If this guy is over the age of 35, he may have just adapted to not having a partner. He may be a closet gay man. Ask yourself, "Why was he unattached at the time that you connected with him?"