Are you a physical turnoff??? Do you look the same as when you first got together??? Who knows what the prolbem is...maybe it's a gender identity issue.

He is from another place and you met over the net. How well do you REALLY know him??? I just had a good lady friend go through this ordeal. Her new husband wasn't who he said he was...sexually. You both need counselling...especially because you have a new kid.

My apologies for sounding so rough...but you need to deal with this ASAP or you will turn around and...pfft...20 years will be gone.