What you feel isn't selfish. If your husband is looking after you and both of you are happy then there's nothing wrong with being a homemaker. Enjoy it. You're looking after the home, garden, pets (if any) and this is quite a task. There's so much pressure on women these days to have a career and in society there's a new snobbery developing towards women who choose to be a housewife. You could always work from home or baby sit for a little while if you want to produce your own income and not have to go out and earn.