He kisses me, he holds me stuff like that. Whenever we have sex it's because I initiate it by giving him oral. He doesn't do much tho just missionary and it's a turn off for me because I enjoy sex and I'm the kind of person that will be open minded about anything and willing to trying anything at least once. I don't expect for him to be some big freak or have sex every day but I do expect for him to give some kind of effort and meet me halfway.