Much of what you wrote are extrapolations made from no source that I know of...but the fact remains that the thread title said "date" and not "marry". These are two different things, altogether. The "hit & run" in dating is exceedingly different than marriage. With the fellow past a few years older than the lady...she's going to spend an inordinate amount of time as a widow.

Parenthetically...how do you say it's the same reason people have with homosexuality? I've read that part a few times and I have no clue what you mean by that...

Here's a parting joke:

This 75 year old cashed up rich guy married a 22 year old model. His friend asks how he ever managed to convince her to marry him. "Told her I was ninety!!!"

Cheers.....