I'm not quite sure what to tell you. My step-daughter had a problem which they say is genetic - she was still doing it when she was 16 and I have no idea if she still does or not, but I was upset with the mom for not being more proactive about it at an earlier age. If it's a physical problem - and my husband said that his daughter went for about 3 weeks potty trained before doing this - then the best thing is the alarm system, which is something that attaches to your child's underwear and wakes the child at the sign of any wetness. Medication does not work consistently. The reason why kids like my step-daughter have this problem is that they sleep too deeply and are just not woken up by normal signals. Do you have a hard time waking your child up?