I think it is cute that he offers you tea or water. That is giving you something that facilitates a connection in a hospitable, giving, bonding way. Luckily my pdoc has lightened up on that as he says it is not a problem...now. It was earlier in our time together. I do understand it though...even if it was a little out there.

How long are your sessions that he has time to make tea? It sounds quite relaxed and cozy.