Also, everyone is basing things on the fact that the 45 year old man has tons of dating experience and the 20 year old has very little. Here's a twist, what if the 45 year old man had NO dating experience? Idk, lets say he was a prisoner of war in a foreign country for 20 years. And lets say the 20 year old has been dating and sleeping around since she was 16. What then?