Withit,

I agree with Sunrise...give this new relationship some time to develop. I had no transference with my last therapist and was totally freaked out this time until I realized what was going on. I am not sure who I am transferring but also think it is sometime significant other, sometimes father, sometimes mother. I believe the transference can change depending on my needs. My T is also about my age and that doesn't hinder the transference, so I say just give it some time and see what develops. Good luck.